FALLING FOR THE WRONG PERSON

  It took me 2 years to realize that he was the wrong guy, i was carried away by his looks and sweet words. he was so good that his words could sweep you off your feet. He wasn't that tall but he was well built with muscles all over, huh i adore guys with such looks! i couldn't believe my eyes the first day we met. It was actually in a restaurant, while having lunch with my girl friends from school, he walked up to me. I couldn't believe he was walking towards me. It was like a dream come through, because i sighted him the first time we walked into the restaurant, i actually admired him. I just couldn't keep my eyes off him, so "spectacular" as he was called, although his real name was Dan(Daniel) walking up to me seems like our heart met.

We exchanged contact numbers and other things, that was the beginning of it all. He had a great sense of humor which made me more attracted to me as i felt yeah! he's got it all, just like i want it but unfortunately i was wrong. He was my priority, while to him, i was just an option. I was actually one of his numerous victims. Against every advice from friends and family, i was still with him. you know! sometimes we learn the hard way. Most times we(girls) allow things to go extremely wrong before we believe or we allow things to happen to us before we could listen and understand. Right from the unset my brothers set their eyes on him, they realized his type and gave me serious warning but hey! i was so blinded by love that i couldn't take any advice from anyone.

Until after he got me to his bed, had sex with me, the next day i came to pay him a visit. I knocked at his door, instead of opening the door and letting me in as usual, he came outside. I was amazed because that was strange to me. He said i couldn't come inside and i asked why, he said he was busy with something inside and no one could come in. Suddenly, i heard a female voice calling him and asking who was at the door. I was heart broken and ask who the lady was, Daniel was bold enough, without hesitation to tell me that the lady was his finance. I couldn't believe my ears, as if that wasn't enough, he announced our break-up.

I couldn't move an inch from where i was standing, i managed to get home. I was so ashamed to tell anyone what happened because i was warned initially. For one week, i cried like a baby, i wept. I had no idea that  while i was busy falling for him, he was busy flirting with other women. I just felt for the one he call his finace because i'm sure she's one of his victims. If only she knew what she was dealing with. My friends blamed me for my stubbornness. I learnt my lessons but since then i find it difficult to fall in love again, still scared of falling for the wrong person the second time.