THE HEART OF A WOMAN

Love makes the world go round, It seems easy for one to admit that falling in love is  the best thing that has ever happened to him or her. Well it could be, but i believe falling in love has its advantage and dis advantage.

Firstly, one advantage of falling in love is that you have someone by your side, someone to share life's adventures, a support system. Love makes life more exciting and enjoyable. You’re healthier physically and mentally, you get to experience the greatest mysteries of life. Relationships can motivate you to be a better person, you have someone to care about you, you won't be lonely, you will be able to give and receive love and affection. Relationships can also add drama to your life, you lose privacy and freedom.

The disadvantages arise not because of love but due to relationships, but because we love someone when they betray us, it affects us greatly in a negative way. Betrayal in a relationship can make one go insane, one can easily lose focus or traumatised, although we would probably not feel that way if we did not love that person in the first place. Another disadvantage is  feeling confined or trapped. It's like a feeling where the percentages of love are not balanced from both people. Love is not a bed of roses, it requires commitment, dedication, time and resources. Also, sometimes, expectations result in disappointment.

Love, just like every other thing in life has its ups and downs. To be in love or fall in love, the person in question needs to be mentally and physically ready or you might not survive the downs in love, like a friend of mine always say "enjoy the pleasure, survive the pain", although falling in love is not an easy game as some people refer it, however, everyone has the right to feel loved even if its once in their lifetime.
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